Don't Buy Lifestyle. Buy Assets That Cover Your Lifestyle.
Whenever you have money, or get money, it's very easy to spend it. Some people blow it all on dumb purchases. (new car, vacations, wasteful purchases, etc...) Don't do this. But sometimes, people spend that money on something that seems "smart" in the moment, but actually hurts them big time in the long run. Here's a real life example to help it make more sense. (name's have been changed for privacy and anonymity... all the legal stuff) Dave served in the military. Decent income but nothing crazy. He received a lump sum payment from the military for something unfortunate that happened to him during service. It was $120,000 (net after taxes) He was married with kids and never owned a home. The first idea that Dave and his wife had was to use that money to put a HUGE down payment on a home. This "seemed" like a smart move.... at first. Until Dave realized that even with that huge down payment, they would still have a mortgage payment every month, and it would still take decades to pay off the mortgage. I offered Dave a different plan. Since he was military, he had access to the VA loan program. Which means he can buy a home with a $0 down payment. The mortgage payments would be higher, but what happened next made all the difference. Dave used the VA loan to purchase a slightly older house that needed some sprucing up, but was still nice and livable. This house had an advantage though. It was sitting on a few acres of land, and it was in a rural community with less county restrictions. Their mortgage was ~$2,400 a month. This cost ~$13,000 in closing costs. So his $120k was now down to $107k. Then Dave and his wife took the remaining $107k and built two smaller units on the property that they could post on AirBnB and rent out. He charged $115 a night and they were rented out about 50% of the time. Here's the math: $115 x 2 = $230 per night $230 x 15 rentals a month = $3,450 a month in revenue. They did all of the maintenance, cleaning, and turnovers themselves to reduce expenses.