Forgiving people is necessary??

19h • Advice

Sometimes, no matter how much we try to forgive a person, that person keeps coming back with the same mistakes and excuses.

When this happens, you really don’t need to forgive that person again and again especially if it’s the same mistake repeating itself.

Because now it’s not about them; it’s about you. Now you need to respect yourself and prioritize your boundaries.

You don’t have to disrespect them or scream at them. Just calmly and respectfully distance yourself from them.

All you have to say is:

“I forgave you once and twice, but not anymore. This is the last time I’m forgiving you. If you need anything, of course I’m here you can come and ask but I don’t really think we can be friends anymore.”

And that’s it!

Remember, if you keep forgiving people and they are still causing you the same trouble, then you are the one who is letting this happen to yourself not them.

That’s why do forgive, but don’t give them ten more chances to screw you over.

Be kind, not nice there’s a huge difference between the two.

Allahumma barik 🤍

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