You already know something is repeating. You just haven't been able to stop it yet.
That's exactly what The Self Lab is for.
This is a small community for expats dating or in relationships in the Netherlands who are done with theory, useless tips and journaling prompts.
We look at real situations (yours and others') and find the actual pattern underneath.
I invite you to a 1:1 call right after you join so we can look at your specific situation together and figure out what to work on.
Inside you get:
— Access to me
— Bi-weekly calls on real situations
— A community of people navigating Dutch dating (seriously, amazing people)
I'm Tania. I built this after going through my own version of this. The same loop, the same wall, the same moment of realizing I needed more than just 'understanding it'.
Week of May 4: performing in relationships without realising it (and what it costs you)
Join the next call on May 13!
$12 (€9.99)/month. One week free trial.
If it's not the right place, you won't be charged.