The Self Lab
Private
24 members
$12/month
If every date ends the same way, you might be stuck in a pattern.
This is where we break it.
Whether you overgive, shut down, or keep choosing the wrong person — the pattern is workable.
šŸ’« When you join: a personal 1:1 session with me to identify exactly what's blocking you.
šŸ’¬ Daily support: bring real situations before you overgive, chase or shut down.
ā˜Žļø Bi-weekly calls: we slow down what's happening and decide what to do differently.
What shifts in 30 days:
→ You set one boundary you couldn't before
→ You stop spiralling after someone pulls away
→ You catch yourself in the pattern before it plays out
"The right people somehow end up here. Even as an introvert, I felt safe." — member
Week of March 23rd: why the pattern keeps running the show — even when you know exactly what it is.
Live call Thursday the 26th, 20:30–21:30 CET. New members are welcome.
šŸ‘‰ Start your free trial — your 1:1 session is waiting.
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