Apr 4 • General discussion
Kids are misunderstood (voice note)
How will your kid remember you?
This is how I remember my dad...
About 30 years ago, on a warm Summer night.
My dad, my middle brother, and myself were sitting on the back steps looking up at the stars.
My dad started telling us a story.
Now I don't know about you...but I love stories
So I got into it!
Until this day, I don't remember what the story was about but I do remember my imagination taking over.
As I got immersed in the story, I let out a sigh of relaxation.
(cue the magical dreamy sound effects you hear in cartoons when someone starts telling a story)
"Siiiiighhhhh"
I was in a dream state, just imagining myself in the story.
But my dream quickly turned into a nightmare...when it was interrupted with:
IS MY STORY BORING YOU!!!
GO TAKE YOUR A$$ IN THE HOUSE THEN!"
Instantly, I felt my eyes burn as they filled with salt water.
Sad and confused, I wondered why my dad cussed at me like a stranger in the streets.
I knew from experience, that trying to explain myself was pointless...but I tried anyway.
And of course, per usual, I was met with "I DON'T WANNA HEAR THAT S#IT! GET OUT OF MY FACE!"
I could feel them watching me as I walked slowly up the steps with shame.
I took my time on purpose.
Savoring the moment.
Because I knew even as a little kid...I would remember this misunderstanding... FOREVER.
Sure, I always forgave my dad for cussing me out over the years.
Because I know he also had a rough childhood.
This was a wound that eventually healed...but scars last forever.
You ever wonder how your kids will remember you?
Do you want to be the most positive influence in their lives?
I want to support as many parents as I can to understand their child and make happy memories... instead of childhood wounds.
If you want to be a better parent…and you’re not sure how...feel free to message me anytime.
BTW: this picture is the house from the story.
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Kids are misunderstood (voice note)
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