Our relationship with the Cosmos/One Heart matures over time when we give it attention.
Befriending the Whole can be a first step on the journey. (Don't friendships begin with attention and spending time together?)
Albert Einstein may have had it right when he was the most important question is "Do you believe the universe is friendly?"
I'd be interested to know if in your heart of heart you just know the cosmos is benevolent or biased in our favor.