I think it’s super important you actually think about what type of woman would be best for you. Right now I want you to think. If the woman you’re perusing (if for long term relationship... which you should be doing) was your daughter would you be proud/impressed? If the answer is no, you should probably find another woman. Not chasing the best body or looks possible as these women are often superficial. Here’s what I’ve come to learn: - Most men are attracted to the wrong women — looks, validation, excitement — not alignment. - A woman can be beautiful and still drain your focus, your confidence, and your mission. - Character > Beauty. Looks matter, but not more than loyalty, peace, and self-discipline. - Femininity is possibly the most important thing for a women to demonstrate when it comes to her ability to complement a man’s direction and follow your lead. - The right woman adds value to your life; mentally, emotionally, spiritually — not just physically.

Let me know what you’d like to see next (comment if there’s a topic I did not hit on).

In LTR, there comes a time when we will be expected to meet the parents. How should we act when this happens? Internalizing LOW and being narcissistic/selfish doesn’t seem like the best play when dealing with the parents. The dad of the girl I’m seeing wants to meet me to see if I’m a good fit for his daughter. They come from a good family, so there is some pressure to perform here.