My partner makes way more money than I do and we share our family expenses and so there is a codependency going on which frustrates the heck out of me... He does pay for certain things if I cannot chip in though. But it does trigger me on some level (gender/equality) and I feel inferior and helpless when that happens. It's nothing new and I do the mindset work but I think what I have been missing is talking about it with other mums who also have their own businesses in a community like this. Like we speak the same language without needing so many words. I never had a mum support group in all my 13 years besides the odd friends 🥹 And on top of that my partner is not very good at managing what he spends on / the bigger picture and that often impacts the family wellbeing. To be honest I want to be so secure financially that I am completely independent from his income and feel so confident to step in of necessary, without feeling afraid where is my hard earned money going. I want to pay for things for me / the family with total joy and freedom. Sorry for the rant 😝 I clearly needed to share that with someone 🤣 is it just me or can anyone else relate to this? 🥹🩷