I have a 2.5 year old son, and this summer we lost our little girl at 20 weeks. Im now 15 weeks pregnant and getting close to when we lost our daughter so anxiety is very high. I keep trying to stay in the moment and tell myself today I am pregnant, that is my reality, there are no signs I am not pregnant, and until I am told I am not, that is not my reality. It sounds a little cooky but the self talk is helping and I am not having complete meltdowns and returning to a dark place reliving what happened last time as I drive to my scans (which is when the anxiety hits the worse). Happy to be part of this community and wishing everyone healthy pregnancies!! 🩷

I’m Samia, 44yo and from SF Bay Area. I’m currently 13w with my IVF pregnancy. Early diminished ovarian reserve when I was 35, 3 IUIs, 4 retrievals, 2 polyp surgeries, chronic endometritis. I have a beautiful 5yo daughter from my first IVF transfer in 2020. Then a second successful IVF transfer in 2025 but unfortunately we lost our baby in the first trimester. I am now pregnant again via my 3rd IVF transfer, currently at 13w. I hope I get to bring this baby home and give my sweet daughter a sibling to love.

Hi all, I'm Kate from New Jersey. Currently 11 weeks pregnant via IVF due to infertility and genetic reasons (found out during infertility workup). Still processing/grieving the whole IVF process, my first failed transfer, and losing the possibility of conceiving on my own in the future.

Hi, I'm Lauren! I'm turning 43 this weekend and I'm currently 10 weeks and 4 days pregnant after 6 and a half years of trying. This is my 5th pregnancy and hopefully my first live birth. I was diagnosed with low egg reserve at 36 and did 7 egg retrievals. I had 1 chemical pregnancy after an IVF cycle converted to IUI. I had 1 ectopic pregnancy that resulted in having a fallopian tube removed. I had 1 natural pregnancy at 40 with 1 tube that we lost at 13 weeks from trisomy 18. We went through a horrible egg donor journey and had 1 pregnancy last year that ended at 8 weeks from a bad subchorionic hematoma. I also had 4 failed transfers with normal embryos. So far this donor pregnancy has gone really well... which I am completely unprepared for, lol! I'm grateful this is looking good, but still incredibly anxious and cautious. And I'm based in Los Angeles. :)

Hi I'm Rachel, I'm 35, I'm from Leicester in the UK and am nearly 17 weeks pregnant 😊