I F*CKED UP šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø
When I got my first dog, I’ll be honest—I messed it up.
Not permanently (we got her back on track in the end)…but the start was rough.
See, I thought I was doing everything ā€œright.ā€I socialised the hell out of her. Took her everywhere. Let her meet every person, every dog, every single thing that moved.
And here’s what happened:
Her main source of value became everything external.Other dogs. Strangers. Environments.
So guess what?When I needed to step in and say:ā€œNot right now. Not this time. Not that dog.ā€
…we clashed.
Because I wasn’t just stopping her from sniffing or playing—I was blocking her from her primary source of reinforcement.
That’s when frustration and conflict started to creep in.
The lesson?Socialisation is important…but over-socialisation (without anchoring the dog’s value system back to YOU) creates a dog that’s externally obsessed and internally conflicted.
You don’t want your dog living for the next distraction. You want them living for the partnership.
That’s the balance.And it’s the piece I badly overlooked at the start.
SO DO NOT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE !
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Ollie Stevenson
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