Our Community Agreement: The Values That Hold Us Together
Before you settle in, I want to share what holds this community together. These are not just rules. They are the values we have all agreed to live by inside The BRIDGE. 1. LEAD WITH LOVE. We speak to one another with warmth, patience, and respect. No shaming. No blaming. No diagnosing someone else's child based on a paragraph in a comment. 2. PROTECT CHILDREN'S DIGNITY. When you share about your child or a child in your care, remember they are a full human being who may one day read what you wrote. Share thoughtfully. Protect their story. 3. THIS IS NOT THERAPY. The BRIDGE Community is a place of education and community support. It is not clinical treatment. If you or someone in your care is in crisis, we will connect you to the right professional support. 4. NO MEDICAL OR LEGAL ADVICE. We do not provide medication recommendations, diagnoses, or legal counsel. Please consult your child's healthcare providers and qualified professionals for those needs. 5. HONOR ALL BRAINS. We are a neurodivergent-affirming community. We do not debate whether ADHD, autism, or learning differences are real. Every brain belongs here. 6. CULTURAL RESPECT We celebrate the full diversity of our community, including families from the Caribbean, Africa, Latin America, the diaspora, and everywhere in between. Cultural humility is not optional here. 7. NO SOLICITATION. Please do not advertise products, services, or other communities without permission from Dr. KC. 8. PRIVACY FIRST What is shared in The BRIDGE stays in The BRIDGE. Do not screenshot or republish members' personal stories without explicit permission. 9. ASK BEFORE YOU ADVISE. When someone shares a struggle, pause and ask if they want advice or if they simply need to be heard. Both are valid. Neither is assumed. 10. WE DO NOT DO THIS ALONE. You are not alone in this village. We show up for one another. We hold space. We celebrate. We keep going together. Thank you for agreeing to these values. They are what make this a community and not just a group.