This is Where You Stay
There comes a point where you start to notice receiving as it’s happening.
Not as an idea—but in real time.
Something good shows up…and almost immediately,
you feel the urge to question it.
The urge to look for what’s missing
or wonder how long it will last.
And this time—you don’t run with that.
You don’t fix it. You don’t overthink it.
You just notice.
And that’s where things begin to shift.
Because now the work isn’t figuring out what receiving means.
It's actually choosing it-- right there in the moment.
When someone offers help and your instinct is to say “I’ve got it”
—you pause and let them.
When something feels easy and your mind wants to complicate it
—you stay and let it be easy.
When care shows up and your body tightens a little
—you breathe there instead of pulling away.
That’s the work now.
Not becoming someone who receives perfectly
just someone who stays long enough for it to actually land.
So, what do we do now?
We keep choosing it.
We let things be enough without immediately trying to change them.
We let support be support. We let care be care.
Again, and again—in small, almost unnoticeable moments.
Until something starts to feel different.
Until it feels a little more natural to stay than it does to pull away.
Because the life you’ve been asking for doesn’t just ask you to grow…
it asks you to hold it.
So, when something good shows up—just pause for a second.
Not to figure it out. Just to feel it.
And maybe ask yourself:
Can I let this be enough without needing to earn it?
Can you let yourself have this—just as it is?
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