Woah you guys!! Today's Shameless Lesson was FIRE 🔥
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I love teaching this workshop because you guys have so many “ah-ha” moments, and today did not disappoint.
We opened this lesson by discussing last week’s homework assignment. The first one was on being mechanical or unconscious. Moving from the unconscious to the conscious requires a manual shock from you — it takes the right effort at the right time to begin interrupting your patterns.
Then we discussed what you experienced during your next assignment. I loved hearing all your results and I’m proud of each and every one of you who completed the task. I’ve had many students refuse to follow through with the homework, and that refusal expands into every area of life. Then they wonder why their dreams are not manifesting. I thought it was really interesting that two of you had the exact same experience.
Then we went deep into this week’s Lesson Three on Family Shame — discussing the types, where it comes from, how you’re constantly reminded of it, and why you refuse to put it down, purposely limiting your capacity to grow. Today we broke that pattern open.
Let’s get into the case studies.
Case Study One:
This person came in with something that looked small on the surface — things that were “said” that didn’t match what the “eyes” could see within the family belief system. Small inconsistencies with big consequences.
But that’s the thing about shame — it’s never the big dramatic moments that wire you. It’s the quiet ones you’d never think affected you that create the shame block and limit the amount of pleasure you allow yourself to feel.
In all my years teaching this, I’ve had only a few students who truly knew the exact moment the shame block was born, myself and my teacher included. The moments that block you are usually so small and insignificant that you’d never think to look there. That’s why this work is so powerful. You get to the very root.
Case Study Two:
This person asked about losing a parent, moving from one place to another, and something that was constantly said by their mom.
We dissected this because there were many moving parts that were thought to be one issue but were actually two separate issues.
If you have the ability to separate the stories, healing becomes much easier — treating each individual issue rather than wrestling with one big messy story. This is when a teacher can be really helpful.
We discussed how abandonment from a living parent and abandonment from a parent passing away are two separate chakras, two separate blocks, and two different teachings. We go deep into the separate blocks in my Wheels Workshop.
Case Study Three:
This one was really cool!
This person had been thinking about a particular moment, thinking it was from her grandmother, and asked how she could approach healing it.
We went in with surgical precision on this one.
I had my suspicions about where this pattern was coming from but approached it the standard way. Her unconscious mind had been trying to communicate this to her for some time.
This actually turned out to be a shame pattern from a past lifetime.
The moment she got that answer — you could see the relief wash over her. Making the unconscious conscious brings such great peace. It was a pattern she couldn’t trace in her own life, couldn’t explain, and couldn’t shift — and suddenly it made complete sense.
We closed with homework specifically designed to help you stop carrying your family wounds into every room you walk into.
If you want to become a student of mine and receive structured spiritual teachings and tools to heal your shame blocks, Shameless is running live (simply upgrade to receive access). You still have enough time to catch up with us, but you won’t for much longer. See you in class!