The Empath People Pleaser struggle with Skool

When people request to join this Skool group the coach and healer and helper within me gets excited, someone new who the information, support and resources might help and serve.

Thats my goal and purpose. It makes me feel good. The group is getting noticed and people are interested.

Then i see they have 0 contributions, 0 followers, very generic answers on the intro questions and their bio. And therefore I either reject them if my intuition says something is off, or I leave it pending until more information becomes available.

And then i feel bad. Like i'm being mean or letting someone down.

But this HAS to stay a safe place. How can people support, heal and share when theres pitchy sales people, scammers, or other negative energies in here. It erodes trust.

So, I keep them pending or reject. I'll keep this community growing safely and slowly. And protect our peace.

Boundaries in action.

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