It seems like in 1 way or another we find ourselves grieving the life that coulda been or shoulda been. I know I have. For the past 10 years, I've literally grieved the mommy I feel like I shoulda/coulda been - had life worked out the way I wanted it to.
The truth of my reality for a long time felt like a whole lotta fails & a true burning hell. Succumbing to mental heartbreak is torture. Jumping into the emotional rabbit hole is turmoil awaiting your own demise.
This all can change the minute you redirect your energy.
Whether it be a marriage, death of a loved 1, career shift, relationship change, a growing nest or empty 1 — change is inevitable. How long will you allow yourself to dwell in the anxious pits of hell before you'll step forward into the newest pasture of where you are supposed to (grow) go?
Nothing lasts forever — but for the time it was here did you enjoy it? Did you enjoy you?
The love existed b/c there was a lesson & a light that was supposed to shine brightly through your heartspace to another.
The career you set out to do - you've accomplished. You served your purpose & made yourself the ultimate asset. You are what was needed @ the time.
For the loved ones: whether they are still here in this physical plane or in the ethers awaiting your arrival — remember your soul was the sweetest nectar harvested from the fruit of what was bared. Just b/c their shell is no longer, doesn't mean the memories, connections & love doesn’t exist. Everything now has to be done in a different way. Gentle advice: Allow yourself to adjust & love them as if they moved to a different country or state w/ no phone. I promise, the next time your souls intertwine it'll be as if they never left — like you just saw them yesterday. 😇✨️
Throughout this grief process, please know that it was your love that set a standard. It was your work ethic that drove in revenue [for the company]. It was your skills & loving energy that poured into the nest.
Your love, dedication & determination created the house & the home. Due to the energy & environmental shift, a new chapter is now unfolding. A unique level of vulnerability, sensitivity, delicacy w/ your newest situation will be required in order to navigate your path of least resistance.
Before this situation gets the grace — you 1st.😉✌🏾
If you want the love you have to transform your energy to vibrate at the frequency of your ❤'s desires.
For the job or the business venture, you will have to embody the you, you would be holding the position.
If you want the home — you have to start moving things (declutter, decorate, etc.) around the 1 you'rein to prepare for the new home.
If you want to move through the grief of your loved 1 — create your altar, place their favorite things (pix, momentos, candy, etc.) on it & talk to them as if their spirit is present. They will send you signs in return, as well as assisting you along your journey.
The whole point is to navigate on this mission with the best mindset you can create finding gratitude, love & light in all you do.
Maneuver through your grief first & trust that everything's okay. Also, find solace in knowing that this thing has already happened. There'll never be another 1st time for it to happen again. You now have the tools to see your way through.
Recognize the new path that's been created for you. Whatever you don't know, you will find out along the way. You've paid your spiritual tithes. Your higher self is now asking you to modify your old way of being to accommodate your newest timeline. So what we doin'? #GOODGRIEF #HIGHVIBES #SPIRITUALHEALING #LETSGROW✨️💫
Tribe, I would like for you to take this time to BE STILL. What is your current timeline asking of you?