It seems like in 1 way or another we find ourselves grieving the life that coulda been or shoulda been. I know I have. For the past 10 years, I've literally grieved the mommy I feel like I shoulda/coulda been - had life worked out the way I wanted it to. The truth of my reality for a long time felt like a whole lotta fails & a true burning hell. Succumbing to mental heartbreak is torture. Jumping into the emotional rabbit hole is turmoil awaiting your own demise. This all can change the minute you redirect your energy. Whether it be a marriage, death of a loved 1, career shift, relationship change, a growing nest or empty 1 — change is inevitable. How long will you allow yourself to dwell in the anxious pits of hell before you'll step forward into the newest pasture of where you are supposed to (grow) go? Nothing lasts forever — but for the time it was here did you enjoy it? Did you enjoy you? The love existed b/c there was a lesson & a light that was supposed to shine brightly through your heartspace to another. The career you set out to do - you've accomplished. You served your purpose & made yourself the ultimate asset. You are what was needed @ the time. For the loved ones: whether they are still here in this physical plane or in the ethers awaiting your arrival — remember your soul was the sweetest nectar harvested from the fruit of what was bared. Just b/c their shell is no longer, doesn't mean the memories, connections & love doesn’t exist. Everything now has to be done in a different way. Gentle advice: Allow yourself to adjust & love them as if they moved to a different country or state w/ no phone. I promise, the next time your souls intertwine it'll be as if they never left — like you just saw them yesterday. 😇✨️ Throughout this grief process, please know that it was your love that set a standard. It was your work ethic that drove in revenue [for the company]. It was your skills & loving energy that poured into the nest. Your love, dedication & determination created the house & the home. Due to the energy & environmental shift, a new chapter is now unfolding. A unique level of vulnerability, sensitivity, delicacy w/ your newest situation will be required in order to navigate your path of least resistance.