You were raised by imperfect people, doing their best, with the tools they had. Some of what they gave you is gold. Some of it is a wound that still hasn't fully healed. Most of it is somewhere in between. Before you can build a better blueprint for your son, you need to understand the one that was built for you. This workbook will take you about 45–60 minutes to complete properly. Don't rush it. Give it the space it deserves — because you deserve that, and so does your son.