Welcome to Radical Unbecoming! · Radical Unbecoming in Midlife

Welcome to Radical Unbecoming!

I’m Becki, and I’m so happy you’re here!

Before we dive in, I want to share a little about me—and why this community matters so much.

I’m a Certified Professional Life Coach and Energy Leadership Index Master, and after 30+ years in higher education leadership, I’m standing in a season of profound transition myself. I’m preparing to retire from a long career that has been meaningful, demanding, and deeply intertwined with my identity.

At the same time, I’m building a coaching business centered around work I feel deeply called to do.

And like many women in this season, I’m also navigating real-life challenges that stretch me daily—supporting adult children through difficult seasons, managing the emotional load that comes with caring deeply, learning to release over-functioning, and asking bigger questions about who I am now and what this next chapter is meant to look like. In other words… I’m in it too.

That’s why I created Radical Unbecoming. Because so many of us reach this season carrying decades of expectations, responsibilities, conditioning, and roles that once fit—but no longer do.

We’ve spent years being:

💪 Capable

🛟 Reliable

🔥 Strong

📋 Responsible

🏛️ The ones everyone counts on

And somewhere along the way, many of us became disconnected from ourselves.

Radical Unbecoming is not your average midlife or menopause community. This isn’t a space for passive scrolling, surface-level conversations, or collecting more information.

This is a space for:

💬 Truth

🔥 Courage

🩵 Connection

🎯 Real momentum

Here, we:

🤝 Collaborate

🔥 Challenge

🌿 Reflect

🎯 Take action

We practice telling the truth about what no longer fits.vWe challenge old beliefs and patterns. We support each other without fixing or rescuing.

And together, we begin reclaiming what matters most.