Tell the truth… humans hate when you start setting boundaries. They’ll label you selfish or dramatic or “too much.” They’ll make you feel like you owe them your time, your space, your sanity. But NEWSFLASH- you ONLY get one life, one mind, one opportunity at happiness and you do NOT owe your freaking energy to someone who doesn’t value it. Full stop. 👏
I used to let everybody cross my lines. I used to let other people’s crises become my crises. I let shame and guilt keep me OPEN- FUCKING- GRAILED 24/7👌. Drained, tired, on empty, pretending like I was okay. I bent over so far backwards I literally broke in half. Girl, you KNOW you’ve been there too. THAT is what NO boundaries look like. You lose yourself trying to separate everyone else’s problems. 🫥💣
Now I set boundaries like somebody’s life depends on it… Because mine does. I guard my peace like it’s billionaire material. I say no and don’t feel the need to explain myself 100 times. I walk away when I know the energy is bad. I don’t respond to every text I get. I don’t “show up” because people want me to or I “should.” THAT is not being selfish or rude. THAT is LOVING yourself enough to give a damn about your own well-being. 🦾🖤
Your boundaries allow your real people room to come into your life. If someone flips because you’re honoring your energy, let them walk. If they can’t respect your“No”, they don’t get your “Yes.” Listen……
Meet some badass humans who understand. Who will never ask you to shrink, bend or break just to make them feel better.
Set your boundaries. Guard your inner flame. YOU ARE ENOUGH, AND YOUR ENERGY IS PRICELESS. ✨🛡️🔥🦅🚀