What have we been noticing lately regarding pleasure? I’ve personally been noticing how much stress impacts pleasure. I consider myself a pleasure enthusiast and still, stress is affecting how much of it is available. But you know what’s beautiful? Knowing that it’s always there for me. Available at any point that I want to access it. I’m in the process of moving, which is one of life’s most stressful moments. So I have been reminded of the effects of stress in my pleasure. It’s quite literally the biggest reason many of us have a hard time getting down and dirty after a long day of work and other responsibilities. So what have I been doing? Deepening my breaths as soon as I catch myself breathing shallowly. Taking long hot showers and feeling clean. Taking nature breaks during busy days. Stretching my body and dancing to shake things off. I’ve also been smoking 🌱🍁 a little more often than usual…. Without judging myself. How do you usually support yourself through stressful seasons?

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I'm so excited to build this community of likeminded individuals that value pleasure in their lives. This is a brand new community and so far I am the only one here. I'm hoping to start attracting the right audience and slowly start sparking conversations around pleasure, embodiment, and of course... sex. if you've found us please introduce yourself!

If a client is being stingy and keeps asking for discounts I can be rude to them and they will likely get off on that. Everyone wins 🖤 This would have been a nice perk when I was full time in my cosmetic tattoo business 🤪

We’ve been lied to by rappers about the 🐈‍⬛ tasting like tropical fruits. It’s definitely not mango flavored, but it’s not fish either. Many women are prone to infections down there that sometimes produce a foul smell. It often has nothing to do with how hygienic she is, some of us have a very robust ecosystem down there and some of us are very delicate and anything can throw us off (especially semen). What bothers me the most about this topic is how much it has been normalized that women smell bad… If you go down on someone and it doesn’t feel quite right, it is very appreciated if you communicate that with her so she can take care of it. Here is how you do it: Set the tone: Baby I love going down on you so much/ I’d love to eat you out. Be honest and compassionate: but I think something is off, have you noticed any changes to your ph? I’d eat you out no matter what cause I find you irresistible either way, but i figured it’s worth for you to get it checked out. Simple. It doesn’t need to be a huge deal. Keep your nervous system relaxed and healthy communication. In the other hand, I’ve heard some women make comments about how they have a strong odor and that it’s just how it is… Not babe, you may be dealing with a chronic infection that now feels like it’s part of your life. But a healthy vaginal micro biome is not supposed to make your lover scared of going down on you. You may be lacking a healthy amount of oral pleasure because a lot of people would rather avoid the conversation. I once had an infection that took months to get rid of. This is not easy to deal with but it’s not the end of the world either.