Recently, influencer Lulu Trixabelle (ex-partner of MAFS UK contestant Bailey) suggested in cryptic Instagram posts that their past relationship was an open relationship gone wrong.
You can read the full article here: link Her posts hinted at broken trust and deep emotional wounds — raising questions about how open relationships succeed or fail depending on communication and agreements.
🔑 3 Lessons from This Case
1️⃣ Rules only work if they’re respected.It seems Bailey and Lulu had agreements in place, but if one partner ignores them, “open” becomes “chaotic.” Boundaries must be clear and enforced.
2️⃣ Transparency is non-negotiable.Open relationships collapse quickly when secrecy creeps in. If something happens outside the agreements, honesty is the only path to repair.
3️⃣ Emotional care matters as much as freedom.Lulu’s posts show pain, not just anger. Freedom without responsibility often leads to heartbreak. Nurturing each other’s security should always come first.
💬 Discussion Prompt
What do you think was the biggest red flag in their setup?
- Lack of clear boundaries?
- Ignoring emotional impact?
- Or something else?
Share your thoughts below — let’s turn this messy situation into a chance to learn how to build healthier open relationships. ❤️