After posting my reflection, I realized I’ve been sitting with this pattern for a while…
Most of my growth has come from conversations and relationships.
Not content.
And for a long time, I kept trying to “fix” that instead of actually paying attention to it.
So I made a short reflection to help me step back and look at it more clearly.
Not from a strategy perspective.
Just from an honest, “what’s actually happening here?” place.
It walks through:
• where your recent clients have come from
• what tends to create trust before someone works with you
• what kinds of visibility actually feel natural vs forced
• and what your growth might look like if you leaned into that more
It takes about 3–5 minutes.
I’ve been using it myself to get out of the “I should be doing more online” loop and into something that feels a little more grounded.
If that kind of reflection would be helpful, you’re welcome to use it here: