Key Takeaways - Identity-level change is crucial for long-term success in social dynamics and dating - Balancing inner game (mindset) with outer game (actions) leads to authentic growth - Specific targeting in social media ads can improve the quality of connections - Building local community presence through business partnerships and content creation is an effective strategy Topics Instagram Profile Optimization - Focus on 5 key elements: username, profile picture, follower ratio, bio, and pinned pictures - Use first name or simple username; avoid abstract names - Profile picture should be a clear, FaceApp-enhanced headshot - Aim for 1:1 follower-to-following ratio; use FollowBuddy for cleanup - 3 high-quality pinned pictures are sufficient; mix in some normal content First Date Strategies - Choose drinks over dinner; aim for bars or lounges - Sit next to each other, not across - Keep investment under $75 and location close to home - Avoid performative gestures (expensive dinners, flowers) Frame Control and Confidence - Practice maintaining calm and comfortable body language - Use strategic vulnerability to appear genuine and secure - Allow women to invest (financially, effort) to increase attraction Social Circle Building Techniques - Create value through group chats and events - Collaborate with club promoters and venue owners - Use targeted ads to attract quality connections - Focus on building a local presence and community Personal Development and Identity - Align actions with desired identity for authentic growth - Take massive action to progress through "levels" faster - Balance self-improvement with real-world testing and feedback

Dear members, It's about time we jump start this thing again. There's no reason this community can't be the best accelerator for men looking to level up their social value and create a circle with women, friends, and business connections. For that we need regular engagement and feedback from our members. I'll own some of the blame for letting things stagnate, but we're here to get back on track. So going forward, ⚠️we will be removing any members inactive past 60 days. ⚠️ there will be no ability to rejoin once you are booted. Also know that we will be adding more trainings, recordings, and mini courses going forward. To update your engagement in this community, comment the word "here" on this post. Let's make this thing great, Brian

Jeff came to me 1 week ago with one goal in mind...create a social circle in Nashville...fast. As an entrepreneur, he doesn't have time to approach hundreds of people...but he did want to take action. It's sad, 50% of guys I speak with fail at that first step...they refuse to take action. As for the 50% who do...I create meaningful results for them in 1 week flat. In just 1 week, Jeff created a social circle currently with 40 members and it's growing everyday. This isn't rocket science, it's human science, and I have the ultimate cheat code to attract people that you actually want to connect with. My strategy gets people responding, gets people engaging, gets people making plans to connect IRL. It all starts with a simple introduction... The fact is everyone in your city wants more friends, more invitations, more opportunities to create meaningful relationships. All you have to do is take action to create a social circle that people want to join based on your interests and city. I've done this a thousand times for hundreds of clients...and I've never seen it fail for men who take action. Friends, romances, business connections...it works for any type of connections that you are trying to create, or even all three at once. My program is called New City Mastery...but you don't have to be new to a city for this to work for you. The fact is people are always moving to your city, and need to find that social circle of similarly minded individuals. You become a social connector, you build a social circle from the foundation up, you become the authority in local networking. It's hard to explain the opportunities this strategy will open for you, you just have to take action and see for yourself. You are going to gain a ton of followers, meet a great group of new friends, and go out on fun dates without ever swiping on a dating app. Dating apps are a mess right now, and honestly a complete waste of time in my opinion, especially if you are just getting back into the dating game.

Imagine this. You run a simple Instagram ad. Local brands and influencers click. They DM your account. And instead of chasing people or planning big events…You just drop them into one group chat. Now you’re the one connecting brands and influencers in your city. No venues. No stress. No waiting. No party needed. From your laptop, you create a digital social circle. You connect people who want to be connected. Can you see how this helps your money and dating? Cool in days. Not years. Want me to show you how to set this up? Book your call here → Brianmarckesano.com/vsl-ig Since its so easy, what's holding you back from trying it? Are you afraid? Are you broke? If you're either of those things, just unsubscribe now.

This reel is going pretty viral on my IG When she says "you're not my normal type" https://www.instagram.com/reel/DOLz3iGjg82/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=MTBwOWZ1dGtoZnptNg== What would you say to that?