There is no perfect moment to wait for—because the moment only becomes perfect after you assume it is. Waiting for signs, permission, or a savior is simply remaining loyal to the state you’re in. And states don’t change themselves.
Neville would say: stop reacting to life and start selecting it. The world is not here to rescue you; it is here to confirm what you are being. When you hesitate, complain, or postpone, you are unconsciously assuming “I am not the one with authority.” And life faithfully mirrors that.
The hard decision is not the action itself—it’s the inner decision: I am no longer the person who waits. Once that assumption is made, action flows naturally, without force. You don’t change life by fighting circumstances; you change it by moving into a new state and letting circumstances rearrange.
Complaining never worked because it belongs to the state of powerlessness. Change the state, and the world has no choice but to change its response.
You are not waiting for a sign. You are the sign.