These are more than just words (However, I use a ton of words when I'm writing and try to reflect these words), but are manifest by actions. Who am I really? Is it who you say I am based upon our direct one to one relationship? Or, am I who you say I am to others based upon what you heard? What someone may say about me might say more about themselves than it may actually be about me. I have plenty of deer tracks in the woods if I wanted to call myself a deer. But if you don't come to my woods and stink at tracking, who knows what you would say. (You = the general public who I have yet to meet, that speaks about me)