Why finding a real wingman is harder than finding a 10…

Let’s be honest…

It’s harder to find a real wingman than it is to pull a girl who’s a 10 (speaking from experience myself).

I mean it guys.

A good wingman, one who never blows you out, who adds to your game, and sometimes even makes the pull happen for you, is more valuable than any girl on the planet.

Why? Because that girl’s beauty will fade .But a solid wingman? He stays icy and climbs the journey with you.

Here’s the brutal truth:

Out of 1,000 guys I’ve met in this space… maybe five are true wingman material. That’s less than 1%.

So yeah... if you’ve been struggling to find someone who pushes you, not sabotages you… you’re not crazy. It’s rare.

But you can find him. And in this post, I’m breaking down exactly how:

✅ He’s consistent (goes out 2+ times a week, dates lined up)

✅ He has zero ego (always learning, no “I already know” energy)

✅ He complements your style (your weakness is his strength, and vice versa)

At my peak, I was going out 6 times a week and had my rotations over once a week. Literal 24/7 mastery.

And you know who else did that? My wingmen.

Most dudes have fragile egos, live in outdated pickup theory, and talk more than they close.

They're loser choad nerds that have failed to adopt the methods of a true natural.

You don’t need that. You need someone who’s obsessed with mastery, willing to put in the reps, and can laugh when you both crash and burn, then get right back to it.

That’s what I built my crew around. That’s why our students pull within days, not months. When I bring my wingmen in, I know for a FACT that we're pulling.

So here’s what to do:

👉 Comment on this post with what city you're in and lets start connecting you guys

👉 After this, join our weekly calls so you can both become obsessed with mastery

I’m making it my mission to pair real dudes with real wingmen. Because when you're surrounded by killers, your game levels up fast.

Let’s get to work.

“I’m a student of the game. I watch a lot of film, I watch a lot of games, and I try to learn every night.”

-LeBron James, multiple interviews across his career

“The greatest mistake is to think you know it all. Evolve or die.”

-Ray Dalio (Investor, Billionaire)

“I’m always learning. I’m never satisfied. I’m always trying to get better.”

-Kobe Bryant

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