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Why finding a real wingman is harder than finding a 10…
Let’s be honest… It’s harder to find a real wingman than it is to pull a girl who’s a 10 (speaking from experience myself). I mean it guys. A good wingman, one who never blows you out, who adds to your game, and sometimes even makes the pull happen for you, is more valuable than any girl on the planet. Why? Because that girl’s beauty will fade .But a solid wingman? He stays icy and climbs the journey with you. Here’s the brutal truth: Out of 1,000 guys I’ve met in this space… maybe five are true wingman material. That’s less than 1%. So yeah... if you’ve been struggling to find someone who pushes you, not sabotages you… you’re not crazy. It’s rare. But you can find him. And in this post, I’m breaking down exactly how: ✅ He’s consistent (goes out 2+ times a week, dates lined up) ✅ He has zero ego (always learning, no “I already know” energy) ✅ He complements your style (your weakness is his strength, and vice versa) At my peak, I was going out 6 times a week and had my rotations over once a week. Literal 24/7 mastery. And you know who else did that? My wingmen. Most dudes have fragile egos, live in outdated pickup theory, and talk more than they close. They're loser choad nerds that have failed to adopt the methods of a true natural. You don’t need that. You need someone who’s obsessed with mastery, willing to put in the reps, and can laugh when you both crash and burn, then get right back to it. That’s what I built my crew around. That’s why our students pull within days, not months. When I bring my wingmen in, I know for a FACT that we're pulling. So here’s what to do: 👉 Comment on this post with what city you're in and lets start connecting you guys 👉 After this, join our weekly calls so you can both become obsessed with mastery I’m making it my mission to pair real dudes with real wingmen. Because when you're surrounded by killers, your game levels up fast. Let’s get to work. “I’m a student of the game. I watch a lot of film, I watch a lot of games, and I try to learn every night.”
Why finding a real wingman is harder than finding a 10…
Hinge Date 2
I went out with this Latina chick to get Boba. When she entered the shop; we hugged each other. We sat down and ordered drinks. I'm making jokes about hating the cold. I stated, "I prefer places I can take my shirt off and not freeze my nipples off." We talked about a wide range of topics such as: the college she goes to, traveling, anime, gaming, South America, I teased her about her accent, the gym, tv shows, hiking, biking, soccer, and fashion. I noticed somethings about myself. Whenever, the conversation feels like it's dying. I get in my head a bit and start thinking of things to say. When we got done with our drinks; we decided to walk around the Plaza. I was teasing her about her height and called her fun sized. I asked if she had anything planned later tonight and she said, " I have nothing planned tonight." I knew I should've taken that risk and her if she wanted to go back to her place and watch a movie. Even if she told me no. When we got done walking outside we decided to go to Petco and look at the fish, lizards, and birds. I made her little her made because we were looking at this fish and she couldn't see the fish hiding behind the rock. I told her I see the fish, but she didn't believe me. Her facial expression was slightly mad for about 3 seconds. We get done at Petco. I asked her, "When are we are you free to hangout?" She told me, "I don't know exam week is going to be busy." I texted her when I arrived home. I had a good time with you and she replied back with the same text. Any advice guys?
Journal 1 Hinge Date
I went on this hinge date with this girl in quotes. We went to this mini golf place with an arcade. We're getting a little physical with each other. She's touching me throughout the golf game. She complimented my body saying, " I have a good build." Also, she ask me if I'm seeing any other girls. I tell her no obviously. I hit her with a uno reverse card and ask her. When we got done playing golf, she wanted to get ice cream and I trolled her asked are you going to pay. It scrambled her brain a little bit. She didn't want the ice cream anymore. Few minutes later we sat on this bench to chat more. I kinda ran out of interesting things to say. Out of nowhere she tells me she is TRANS. I look at her (him) like she's alien. I felt bamboozled. She looked good for a trans girl, but I had to end the date. I did not want to sword fight that night.
Weekly journal
On Saturday and Sunday morning, I had a really good. Educational real estate seminar where I met a lot of cool people and got to ask a lot of questions and I even made a couple of friends from this 2 day seminar. Their names are Daniel and Steve And they seem like very good. Guys that are enthusiastic about real estate. Investing like I am and I will probably work with them. As real estate Partners, so I made a couple of good connections over the weekend. We even went to a seafood restaurant and hung out there on Sunday. I also did A few cold approaches during my lunch break on Sunday. But the girls didn't seem interested and they just kept walking by and I didn't make a big deal about it. Because I maintained a positive mindset. After the real estate seminar on Saturday, me and some of my friends ended up Going Out later that night. One of my friends made me wait for him until 11 o'clock. So instead of wasting time waiting on him, I ended up taking myself to sips and I did a couple of approaches there. Just to warm up and I use some of the flirting lines. And it seemed to work for a little bit but then I ran out of things to say. Then I meet up with my friend Dylan at a place called blue nightclub and we stood bend the whole night there and we had a lot of fun dancing. And talking to girls and later on that night. I approached a group of 2 girls and I bring my wingman Dylan in to talk to them. He takes one girl for a drink after she asks me for a drink within 5 minutes of the interaction. And I turned her down because I wanted to get to know her more. And then I started talking to her friend. S and there was a guy coming over to me being jealous about it, and she told me that she would never date that guy and she seemed rather interested in me for a little bit. But then the girls ended up going to the bathroom together and we didn't see the end of the night when we all left.
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