How to turn a dead bar into dates (in 60 seconds)

We went to a dead bar in Dallas last night. Twenty people MAX. Three girls worth your time. Most guys bail in situations like this.

But we didn’t.18 minutes into my first interaction, I closed. No crowd required. Just one girl that I wanted.

The skill? Signal Control.Kill the noise and your signal lands. That’s how you close in less than 5, not 1,000.

Here’s how it looks:

Instant Clarity: Move her two steps to a quieter pocket. Same girl, new acoustics, instant upgrade.
Group Permission: “I’m stealing her for 60 seconds” Watch the mom friend turn from guard to ally.
Momentum Builder: Tight questions, short threads, three quick micro-yeses.
No-Drama Close: Be clear about your intentions.

Keep it simple gents.

—Coach Jesse

PS. If you think you “need volume,” you don’t have a girl problem—you have a noise problem. DM me to fix it.

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