Today is the one year anniversary of my husband Curt’s death. Over the last few days I’ve gotten a lot of “you seem to be handling this well” my response varies. Sometimes I say looks can be deceiving, or yeah, I should win an Oscar for this performance or when I’m in a really bad mood I say ah ya my specialty appearing ok. As I’m struggling thru the day. Especially today what got you thru and what do you say to people who tell you that you seem to be handling it well.