This morning, I woke up at 4:00 a.m. I washed up, made my coffee with heavy cream, sat down in the quiet, and watched a video by Dr. Benjamin Hardy about “future self” and 10X growth. As I listened, something hit me deeply. Tomorrow, I turn 65 years old. And as I move toward that milestone, I find myself reflecting even more deeply on the next 20 years of my life. Truthfully, this is not new for me. For much of my life, I’ve carried what I used to call “foresight.” Even growing up in the Bronx, I often found myself looking ahead — imagining where certain choices, habits, environments, and decisions could eventually lead. For years now, especially at the end of each year, I’ve taken time to reflect honestly: Where am I? Where did I come from? Where do I want to be 12 months from now? And what must I do today to move toward that future? So when I heard Dr. Benjamin Hardy speak about allowing your future self to dictate your present decisions, something resonated deeply with me. Because in many ways, that mindset has quietly been part of my Living Strong journey for decades. Not from fear. Not from slowing down. But from awareness. As a grandfather… as a martial artist… as a teacher… as a man who has lived through struggle, reinvention, pain, joy, purpose, failure, growth, and defining moments… I started asking myself a different kind of question: “What would my 85-year-old self tell me today?” That question stayed with me. Not what would he regret. Not what would he complain about. But what wisdom would he try to hand me now while I still have the strength, the breath, the opportunity, and the time to act on it? That question alone can change a person. One of the biggest ideas Dr. Hardy talks about is this: Most people allow their past to dictate their present. But powerful growth happens when your future begins to dictate your present decisions. That stopped me in my tracks. Because if I’m honest, many of us are still making decisions based on: