Living Strong Is Just a Tap Away
It’s Not Blind Faith… It’s Trained Faith
This morning, on my drive up to Newtown, Pennsylvania, to judge at the Action Karate tournament at Bucks County Community College—about 1,500 competitors from our karate schools across Pennsylvania and New Jersey—there was a lot of energy already building just thinking about the day ahead.
On that drive, I was listening to a podcast… just taking it in.
And something was said—just one line—that stopped me for a moment.
You know those moments… where you don’t hit pause, but your mind does.
And right there, on that drive, this idea came to me.
Blind faith… versus trained faith.
I knew I had to sit with it. I knew I had to write it.
So here I am now… it’s about 4:30 in the afternoon, after a full, exciting day, finally getting this down and sharing it with you.
There’s a phrase people use all the time—
“Just have faith.”
And I understand it.
It sounds comforting. It sounds hopeful.
But when life gets real…
when things don’t go your way…
when you’re tired, uncertain, and questioning everything…
That kind of faith can feel empty.
Because blind faith doesn’t hold up under pressure.
And that’s where many people lose their footing.
But here’s what I’ve come to understand, through experience, through living…
Faith—real faith—is not blind.
It’s trained.
The Misunderstanding About Faith
Most people think faith is something you either have… or you don’t.
Like it just shows up one day.
Or worse… that it means believing in something without any grounding at all.
But that’s not the kind of faith that carries you forward.
That kind of faith disappears the moment life pushes back.
Because it was never built.
Blind Faith vs. Trained Faith
Blind faith says:
“I believe everything will work out.”
But there’s nothing behind it.
No action.
No consistency.
No experience.
It’s hope without structure.
Trained faith says:
“I’ve shown up before.
I’ve handled hard things before.
I’ve taken steps, and I’ll take the next one.”
That’s different.
That’s grounded.
That’s earned.
Your Mind Is Always Training Something
Here’s something most people overlook…
Whether you realize it or not,
you are always training your faith.
Every thought you repeat…
Every story you tell yourself…
Every time you choose to act—or not act…
You are reinforcing something inside of you.
So if the pattern becomes:
“I can’t.”
“It’s too late.”
“This won’t work.”
Then that becomes your trained faith.
Not because it’s true…
But because it’s what you’ve practiced.
The Shift: From Wishing… to Training
Faith is not something you wait for.
It’s something you develop through repetition.
Through showing up when it’s inconvenient.
Through taking a step when you’re unsure.
Through continuing, even when you don’t have the full picture.
That’s how faith becomes strong.
Not by avoiding doubt…
But by moving forward in spite of it.
The Black Belt Mindset—Applied to Life
There’s a simple way to understand this.
You can step onto the mat with a black belt mindset.
Not because you’ve earned the belt…
but because of how you choose to approach the process.
And that applies to life.
You step into something new—you don’t have it figured out.
But instead of pretending or hoping…
You say:
“I don’t have this yet.
But I’m coming back.
And next time… I’ll do a little better.”
That’s not blind faith.
That’s trained faith beginning to take shape.
Faith Is Built Through Evidence
After your first step… you’ve got something.
Not certainty.
Not mastery.
But evidence.
You showed up.
You handled something.
You moved forward.
Now your faith is no longer based on guessing…
It’s based on experience.
And experience builds confidence.
Confidence strengthens faith.
And faith becomes something you can rely on.
How to Train Your Faith
This is where Living Strong becomes real.
Faith is trained the same way anything else is trained—
with intention and consistency.
1. Speak direction into your life
Not fantasy… but forward movement.
“I’m working through this.”
“I’m getting stronger.”
“I’ll figure this out.”
2. Attach meaning to your effort
Faith grows when something matters.
Your family.
Your responsibilities.
Your purpose.
Now your steps carry weight.
3. Take action—especially when you don’t feel ready
This is the key.
Faith is not built in comfort.
It’s built when you move anyway.
Small steps count.
They all count.
4. Protect your mindset
If you don’t train your thoughts…
Something else will.
Be mindful of what you allow in,
and what you continue to reinforce.
Living Strong Principle: Earn Your Faith
Faith is not something you declare once and hold onto forever.
It’s something you earn, reinforce, and expand every time you show up.
First step → “I did it.”
Next step → “I can do a little more.”
Next step → “I’m starting to trust myself.”
And one day…
You realize something changed.
You’re not hesitating the same way.
You’re not doubting the same way.
Not because life got easier…
But because your faith got stronger.
This Isn’t About Perfection
Let me say this clearly…
Training your faith doesn’t mean you won’t have doubt.
You will.
We all do.
But now…
Doubt doesn’t stop you.
Because your faith has been trained to move forward anyway.
Living Strong Is Just a Tap Away
Here’s the truth…
You’re already training your faith.
Every day.
The only question is…
What kind of faith are you building?
Because whatever you practice…
That’s what grows.
So if you’re going to train something…
Train faith.
Not blind faith…
Trained faith.
The kind that’s been tested.
The kind that’s been reinforced.
The kind that shows up when life gets real.
That’s Living Strong.
And it’s not out there somewhere.
It’s right here…
One decision…
one action…
one step at a time.