Ask the Lord to confirm when it is time to let go of what we no longer need to carry, and for the strength and foresight to embrace the new thing He wants to bring.
There is power in agreement. When we disagree, especially with our spouse, we should take the matter to Jesus in prayer and seek alignment with His will. (Psalm 133:1–3)
We must also take responsibility rather than blame others. Instead of avoiding difficult circumstances, face them with humility and a determination to put things right.