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Why You Say Things You Instantly Regret (And the 60-Second Fix)πΏ
Has this ever happened to you?
You say something in the heat of the moment β and the second it leaves your mouth you wish you could take it back.
That's not a character flaw. That's your nervous system doing what it was designed to do under threat.
Christina breaks this down so clearly in her latest Short β and then gives you a 60-second reset you can use before any hard conversation to catch the activation before your survival brain takes over.
Place one hand on your heart. Three slow breaths β in for four, out for six. Say quietly:
"I can stay present for this. I don't have to fix everything. I just have to stay connected."
That simple sequence lowers cortisol, activates your social engagement system, and shifts your brain out of defensive mode before the first word is spoken. π§
Regulated nervous system in. Defended nervous system out.
Watch the Short and then come back here β I'd love to know: what's one conversation coming up that you could use this reset before? Drop it below. ππΏπ
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Why You Say Things You Instantly Regret (And the 60-Second Fix)πΏ
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