Over the last week or so I've sent you details about our ICF accredited Relationship Coaching Certification.
Enrollment has now closed, and we begin on Tuesday.
I've been looking over who I'll be working with personally over the next 6 months, and the range is wide from completely brand new coaches through to experienced therapists.
But here's what I want to ask you, regardless of where you sit on that range.
Are you congruent?
When you coach someone else through healing their past patterns, are you actually living what you teach?
I don’t mean reading about it, listening to podcasts about it and understanding it intellectually.
I’m talking about actually doing the work, on yourself, as a client.
Because the coaches who get the best results aren't the ones with the most knowledge…
They're the ones who are congruent.
They're the ones whose own healing backs up everything they ask their clients to do.
If you're teaching boundaries you don't hold…
If you're coaching communication you don't practice…
If you're guiding people through patterns you've never fully worked through yourself…
That gap shows up.
Clients feel it, even when they can't name it.
This Thursday I'm running a free live masterclass on exactly that process.
Heal The Past So You Don't Get Triggered
This isn't for coaches who want to watch the framework from the outside.
This is for the coach who wants to be congruent with what they teach.