So I have started my first session with a practice client...It lasted 90 minutes and I took her through Pillar 1 and described the human experience of placing meaning on an event and how that interpretation influences all our subsequent behaviours.
I then took her through the Sacred 4 to help elicit exactly what her challenges were wich we identified as her getting bored easily at work and goes into self sabotage by destructively spending money until she gets into crisis mode. This is a re-occuring pattern.
Within this identification of the problem I made a note of several stand out statements and repeated back to what these were and asked her to let me know which one kind of stands out for her. This for her was "I am not worthy of success". This led me onto going through Pillar 2 and the 14 questions.
This was very clunky obviously and at times it was difficult to construct a logical question. I am guessing what I was doing worked because there was lots of silence and thinking which is good for her as she usually speaks at a very rapid rate!!
I am really unsure whether this is the correct process but now I am assuming in her second session I will lead onto Pillar 3 or would I pick another one of her statements and continue on Pillar 2? Asny advice or suggestions would be great appreciated 😄