Before the roses. Before the reservations.
Before the āWill you be mine?ā
There is you.
Valentineās Day isnāt just about romantic love ā itās about devotion. And the most powerful devotion you will ever practice is the one you give yourself.
Self-devotion is:
⨠Keeping the promises you make to your own heart.
⨠Choosing peace over proving.
⨠Resting without guilt.
⨠Saying no without apology.
⨠Honoring your healing as sacred work.
The truth?
The relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship in your life.
When you are devoted to YOUR growthā¦
When you tend to YOUR nervous systemā¦
When you pour into YOUR body, YOUR dreams, YOUR spiritā¦
-You stop begging for crumbs.
-You stop shrinking to be chosen.
-You become the standard.
Today, instead of asking āWho loves me?ā
Ask: How am I loving myself?
Light the candle. šÆļø
Buy the flowers. š
Write the love letter ā to you. š
Because self-devotion isnāt selfish. Itās alignment. Itās power. Itās coming home to your True North. š¹