Learning Can Be Hard...
Learning Can Be Hard - It’s almost never the learning itself that’s hard.
Usually, it’s the start of learning. Or more specifically... The willingness to open ourselves up to learning in the first place. That’s the uncomfortable part.
It’s sitting down with your guitar and admitting:
  • “I don’t fully understand this yet.”
  • “I’m not as good at this as I want to be.”
  • “This feels awkward and unfamiliar.”
Most players don’t quit because they can’t learn.
They quit because being a beginner at something again feels vulnerable. Especially on guitar.
We attach emotion to this instrument. We compare ourselves. We hear someone play effortlessly and think:“Why doesn’t my playing sound like that yet?”
But what we often forget is this - Every guitarist you admire once struggled with the exact same things:
  • switching chords slowly
  • missing notes
  • losing rhythm
  • forgetting shapes
  • feeling overwhelmed by the idea of theory
  • wondering if they were actually improving
The difference is that they stayed with it long enough for things to connect.
That’s where patience and persistence come in.
If we trust the chords we already know…If we trust the melody we’re trying to develop… If we allow ourselves to sound imperfect while learning… Something beautiful starts to happen.
The fretboard slowly becomes less intimidating.Your fingers begin finding notes without panic. The sounds in your head begin coming out of the guitar more naturally.
Not overnight. But gradually.
And honestly? That gradual process is where the real magic is.
Because guitar isn’t just about arriving somewhere. It’s about becoming someone:
  • more patient
  • more observant
  • more expressive
  • more connected to yourself and your creativity
So if learning feels difficult right now, don’t mistake discomfort for failure.
You are likely much closer than you think.
Keep showing up. Keep listening. Keep trusting the process.
One day you’ll play something that used to feel impossible… and it’ll feel natural.
That day is built by the small moments when you almost gave up. 🎸
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Mike Abalos
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Learning Can Be Hard...
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