What is Decentring Women? And Why is it Essential for the Modern Man

Decentering women is a movement that encourages individuals, particularly men, to reclaim their agency and prioritize their own needs and desires over societal expectations that often center around women. This practice is rooted in critical thinking and pattern recognition and seeks to challenge the pervasive female-centric perspective that dominates many aspects of life. It is not about rejecting women or relationships but rather about recognizing and addressing the ways in which men's lives are often contingent on female validation and approval.

So why is this essential for men in 2026?

To answer this question we have to be clear about the choices available to Men in terms of Dating & Relationships in a post feminist Female Supremacist Society

If you are one of the 80% of men that - according to Data from the Dating Apps - 80% of women find unattractive and you are consequently invisible to most women (or what HoeMath calls an Non Person) in response you can choose to:

a) Looksmaxx

b) Learn Game

c) Pay for sexual gratification via Porn Webcams OF subscriptions Prostitutes or Sugar babies

d) "Fall in love" and become a Beta Male provider for a Post Wall Woman to "settle" for

e) Create a life that makes you happy regardless of the absence or presence of women or a women by focusing on the True Purpose of a Man's life which is to Master Yourself and the True Meaning of Human life which is live for your Soul desires instead of your Ego desires, thereby becoming the Very Best Version of Yourself - which you might be surprised to hear is A Christ 😇

Now obviously I'm biased because this entire site is about informing inspiring and empowering you to chose option e) and Decentring Women is an absolute prerequisite for this option.

However because options a) b) c) and d) are very basic Ego Desires they will never bring you the peace happiness and fulfilment you seek (as explained in the "Life is a Video Game" video on the About Page) so you will benefit from Decentring Women even if you choose these options.

In addition; the Mirror Principle (see video #1 on the About Page) means that you attract the type of women who reflect your inner state of consciousness and so no matter how successful your Looksmaxing or your learning Game is, because both are desperate needy attempts to get women in order to fill the bottomless pit of lack unworthiness and incompleteness that is your Ego, you will only ever attract women that reflect your level of desperation neediness scarcity thinking inferiority and unworthiness and Ego back to you i.e. you will only attract the most wounded, most needy, most parasitic, most entitled, most misandrist, most abusive types of women.

And then you will end up bitter and twisted, betrayed and divorce raped and you will be forced to Decentre Women anyway, but from a reactive place of anger and hate, rather than a creative place of self respect and self love as I am encouraging you to do.

When you make a conscious choice to Decentre women because you want to focus on yourself, your Soul, Your Purpose and on living a Meaningful and Fulfilling life, that is exactly what happens - you live a Meaningful and Fulfilling life (remember the Mirror Principle?)

But when you make a reactive choice to Decentre women because you have been used and abused and betrayed by so many women (or the one women you loved with all your heart and married) - that is exactly what the rest of your life will be - a REACTION to all the horrible entitled arrogant women in the world and how you can best protect yourself from them/avoid them even while they live rent free in your head because in your Red Pill Rage you can't stop obsessing over just how "evil" women can be and you are totally fixated on the state of Modern Women.

So yeah go right ahead and looksmaxx/learn game but don't come crying to me when you get exactly what you paid for.

And do I really need to talk about the soul corrupting consequences of paying women for sexual gratification and/or free porn addiction?

Let me just point out that paying women for sexual gratification in whatever form and porn addiction, is on the same level as smoking crack or shooting up heroin or having a gambling addiction when it comes to the self destructive futility of trying to find peace happiness and fulfilment (what every human being is seeking whether they know it or not) by pursuing your Ego desires i.e. they all represent the endless loop dopamine addiction that is just as futile and self destructive as trying to slake your thirst by drinking sea water*

So there's that.

But worst than all of the above is the "I love her and I want to make her my wife" Gynocentric Indentured Servitude disguised as Romantic Love Trap.

All I will say about why it is essential to Decentre women as a "happily" married man is...

"please for the love of god talk to at least 20 men that are married with kids and watch this video to confirm what they tell you before you put a ring on it or worse walk down the aisle!" https://www.skool.com/inner-peace-made-simple-7278/who-causes-most-relationships-to-fail-men-or-women?p=516e4cc9

But what if you are a top 20% man - a Chad or Tyrone - and you have no problem getting laid or acquiring and keeping a hot girlfriend. Why would Decentring women be essential then?

Even Dan Bilzerian will tell you that after you've fucked enough hot women you experience the law of diminishing returns.

You start to feel hollow and empty and nihilistic which isn't surprising because all the creative energy that you were supposed to put into pursuing your Purpose and fulfilling your Soul's desires was focused on nutting on as many hot girls faces as possible.

But even more basic than that, is that hooking up with hot girls and/or having a hot girlfriend means you have to spend your precious time - that you can never get back - with these hot girls you're banging/dating.

And that means you will be forced to experience their personalities and their character and what they are like as human beings.

As most men who have experience with women will tell you, in general women are boooooring.

But it is much worse than that when it comes to hot women, who are used to being treated as a princess by richer better looking men than you and have been getting their way since they were 2 years old leading to them having developed a level of arrogance and entitlement that can be seen from outer space.

These women - the type Chad and Tyrone get to smash - exist on a spectrum (with rare unicorn exceptions) between "generally unlikable" to "absolutely insufferable cunt."

Don't believe me?

I'll let OG MGTOW Stardusk (Thinking Ape) tell it in his own words https://youtu.be/XxGyYk_oUJs?si=XUbP9N1K2nMVkLtQ

Q.E.D.

Whatever your situation as a man, it will benefit you to Decentre Women from your life and Centre your Soul instead.

Your boy Paradox