4d • Advice Needed
Struggling to set boundaries.
I have a lot of people in my life, who are very close and not going anywhere soon, who unfortunately also consistently behave in a manner that leaves me feeling disheartened, upset, and demoralised about my own skills and capabilities.
They wound me.
And I am struggling to recognise where fault lies or action can be taken because I do not want to continue to be wounded and I do not want to make my life harder or smaller by pushing them away and out of it. But I am left again and again feeling alone, abandoned and ashamed of having tried to reach for the light and having striven to be seen and heard and felt and appreciated, only to be warned that I "probably wont succeed" or I "might get hurt in trying to".
And I am so fed up with feeling sad and having my whole day derailed and my plans made a mess of by people I love showing their love by smothering my light.
How do I stop this from happening? How do I protect myself from these woundings? How do I protect my energy and my peace and my drive to succeed?
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Struggling to set boundaries.
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