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MANAGING EXPECTATIONS
Every now and then there's an article in the press or a segment on TV that opens the floodgates of people asking about our Therapeutic Horse-riding services.
While we are delighted that the word is spreading about the amazing and multiple ways that being with horses can benefit children and adults with a range of physical, intellectual, mental heath and other challenges, we have a duty of care to be honest about possible outcomes.
Parents regularly find us as a last resort, desperate for something to hold their child's interest, and we are upfront about the fact that we may not be able to provide the solution they're seeking.
We created this Managing Expectations piece that we now include in the early stages of correspondence with a prospective new client.
It has helped us to establish clear boundaries and prevent parents and children thinking that horses are an instant cure-all!
You are welcome to copy and edit it to suit your own needs.
We've learned a LOT since 2014 - most of the hard way - and we're always happy to share so don't be shy about asking. 🙂
MANAGING EXPECTATIONS
Please, do not expect instant results when you bring your child to Horses Connect!
There has been a lot of media coverage recently about how horses can help people, especially children on the autistic spectrum.
It’s really important to know that there is science behind the effects of being in the presence of horses.
It’s not magic.
It’s not instant.
And it’s not for everyone.
Just like football, swimming or any other activity, horse-riding will not be a good fit for every child.
We see little miracles - that are actually huge milestones - on a daily basis.
A first word, eye contact, or initiating an activity – but these little miracles usually happen after weeks, months or even years of consistent work.
So don’t be disappointed if your child doesn’t want to get up on the pony, or is more interested in playing with the sand!
We have years of experience, and will do our best to encourage your child to ride, but it may not happen!
We have many clients who get more from working with the horse on the ground – grooming, leading, learning liberty work – than they would by riding. We often incorporate groundwork into our therapeutic horse-riding sessions, when we feel the client will benefit.
Once again, this is not for everyone!
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