Eye to Eye: True Connection Starts on the Ground
For thousands of years, horses have stood alongside humans. They have shaped our societies, cultures, and even our myths. They ploughed our fields, carried us into battle, pulled our carts, and gave us speed long before the invention of engines. Ancient civilisations revered the horse not only as a work animal but as a symbol of power, freedom, and partnership. Today, most of us no longer depend on horses for daily work. Instead, we have the opportunity to meet them in a new way, not as tools or transport, but as teachers. When we move away from the concept of horses as functional tools and meet them as sentient beings they offer us something extraordinary: the chance to learn about our true selves. Why Groundwork is the Classroom Riding has traditionally been the most visible way of interacting with horses. From the saddle, we direct where the horse goes, how fast, and in what outline. While (at best) this can be a dance of harmony, it stems from the human setting the agenda. Interacting with a horse on the ground changes everything. On the ground, we meet the horse at eye level. We step into their space, not to control, but to connect, listen and understand. We are all on our feet, connected to the earth, sharing the same physical plane. This reminds us that we, like the horse, are part of nature, and invites us to be present, steady, and rooted in the moment. Here, the horse sets the pace of the interaction. They show us, through their honest, moment-to-moment responses, who we are and how we are showing up. What Horses Teach Us Eye to Eye 1. Authenticity and Presence Horses live entirely in the present. They don’t dwell on yesterday or plan tomorrow. When we step into their space distracted or tense, they notice immediately. Their response teaches us to return to presence, regulate our energy, and meet them in the here and now. 2. Self-Awareness Horses are mirrors. They reflect our emotions, energy, and intentions with complete honesty and no judgement. If we are anxious, they may not want to engage. If we are calm and centred, they are more likely to soften and connect. This gives us real-time feedback about what we are feeling and the energy we are giving - even when we haven’t yet named it ourselves.