I approached 100 women in 100 days (social experiment)

Here are 3 brutal lessons I learned:

1. Nice guys (actually) finish last. Women love generous men, they just hate "nice guys". The first is a sign of resourcefulness, the second is a sign of neediness. Big difference. Don't. Make. Women. Your. Priority. Focus on your purpose, the rest will follow.

2. Fear never disappears. It evolves. As a kid, I feared rejection. Then I got rejected so much, I got good. I went from “what if she says no?” to “what if I never try with this one?” Fear of rejection turned into FOMO. There's only one way I got to solve this...

3. Detachment from outcome. Attachment to God. The law of detachment says: the less you need it, the more it flows. That’s true for money, women, success. Focus on God instead. Let love lead. Then take action. Everything else follows, effortlessly.

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