July is quietly set aside for us. It is Bereaved Parents Awareness Month, a whole month that says a parent who has lost a child deserves to be seen. I came across a study that has stayed with me. When parents who lost a baby were asked what they would do differently, the answer that came up most was that they wished they had made more memories. If you are early in your loss, hear this from me. It is never too late to make a memory, or to say your baby’s name out loud. Held by Daisy is a place to be held while you do. https://substack.com/@lorijohnson887951/note/c-293752813 https://www.heldbydaisy.com

As I approach the anniversary of the birth and death of my infant son, it is different this year. It has always carried a feeling of dread. The sadness held in a vacuum of silence. This year as July 10th nears I feel anticipation. A celebration. Over the last year I have said my son's name out loud. I have written a book, Until Next Time, telling my story. I have created safe spaces for families to share their loss. Meet others who understand. This year I find joy in the legacy of love I have created for Robert William Johnson. No more shadows but loved fully in this life. Remembered and cherished. #miscarriage support, #infant loss, #stillbirth support, #pregnancy loss, #baby loss, #pregnancy and infant loss, #loss of a child