You just walked into a room full of guys exactly like you. Before anything else, do this. Comment below and fill in the blanks: My name is ___, and I'm ___ years old. I spent ___ years in ___, most recently as a ___. Here's what happened: ___ (the call, the merger, the "restructuring," whatever it was). Right now I'm ___ (still looking, already in home services, self-employed, stuck). What I need most from this group is ___. I read every single one. This group gets built by what you tell me here, not by me guessing from the outside. Go.