Why Are Opinions So Important to Us?
Have you ever noticed how much weight we give to other people’s opinions? A kind word can lift us for days, while one harsh comment can knock us down. The truth is, opinions feel important because: ✨ We crave belonging — our brains are wired to seek acceptance. ✨ We want validation — to feel seen, valued, and understood. ✨ They shape our identity — agreement reinforces who we think we are. ✨ It’s survival wiring — rejection once meant being cast out of the tribe. ✨ They act as mirrors — reflecting our doubts or strengths back to us. But here’s the reminder: opinions aren’t facts. They usually reveal more about the person giving them than about us. ✨ Question for you: How do you stop other people’s opinions from having too much power over you?