💚 Love Isn’t the Missing Piece - Skill Is · Get Good With Horses Courses

💚 Love Isn’t the Missing Piece - Skill Is

✨ So many horse parents and friends love their horses of course they do. You can see it in the way they show up, the way they care, the way they worry, the way they try - it’s real, and it matters.

But love on its own doesn’t build skill and that’s not a criticism, it’s just something that I find often gets misunderstood.

Because when things aren’t going right, most people don’t lack love they lack the tools and the understanding of how to help their horse in that moment. And that’s where things can start to feel frustrating.

This I find is because they care so much but they’re not quite getting the result they hoped for.

Skill is what fills that gap.

➡️ Skill is what turns “I hope this works” into “I know what to do here.”

It’s what allows them to be consistent, fair, and eventually crystal clear for their horse.

And from this confidence starts to grow.

Here’s where it gets really powerful and what I witness everyday - when they become more confident, their horse feels it immediately and that is because now, they’re not just loving them, they’re leading them in a way that makes sense.

So if you ever feel like you’re doing everything you can because you love your horse - you are.

Now it’s just about building the skills including the fun ones, to match it.

Because that’s the piece that changes everything.

Question:

👉 Where do you feel your skill needs to catch up with your love right now?

P.S. For fun a video of Lenny backing through a gate with confidence and understanding of which I share how teach step-by-step in the Premium.

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