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May 10 •
Important: Please Read Before Posting Legal Questions
Divorce and custody issues can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re trying to sort through paperwork, deadlines, money concerns, emotional stress, and major life changes all at the same time. This section of the community is here to help people better understand the divorce process, court procedures, paperwork, and the practical side of navigating legal issues during major life transitions. A few important things to know before posting: 🌟This community is for general information, education, and support only. Nothing posted here should be considered legal advice, and no attorney-client relationship is created through this group. ⚖️I’m not a lawyer. I’m a longtime paralegal and content creator who focuses on helping people better understand the practical side of divorce, legal paperwork, solo living, and rebuilding after major life changes. 👨🏼⚖️I can share general information, organization tips, practical guidance, and educational resources, but I cannot provide legal advice, represent anyone in court, or tell you exactly what you should do in your specific case. ⏳Laws vary by state and country, and what applies in one situation may not apply in another. If you need legal advice specific to your situation, you should speak directly with a licensed attorney in your area. 🛑Please protect your privacy when posting. Divorce and family law situations are deeply personal, and online privacy matters more than many people realize. When posting: • Do not use full names • Avoid posting case numbers • Do not share addresses, schools, workplaces, phone numbers, or financial account information • Avoid uploading court documents that contain identifying information Using terms like “my ex,” “my spouse,” “my attorney,” or initials is usually best. If you feel comfortable sharing it, it can also help to include: • your state or country • whether children are involved • and what stage you’re in (considering divorce, newly filed, mediation, temporary orders, final orders, post-divorce issues, etc.)
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Apr 21 •
Start Here
If you’re here, chances are something in your life has shifted. Maybe you’re: • thinking about divorce• in the middle of it • trying to recover from it • learning how to live on your own again (yes, there really is a learning curve) • or simply trying to figure out what comes next after a major life change Whatever brought you here, I’m glad you found this space and you are very welcome here. This community was created for people trying to navigate real-life transitions one step at a time without feeling judged, rushed, or overwhelmed. This is a place to :• ask questions• learn from people going through similar experiences • share wins, worries, frustrations, and progress • get practical support and encouragement • and remind yourself that you are not the only one trying to figure things out You do not need to have everything figured out before being here. Most people arrive exhausted, emotionally drained, overwhelmed by decisions, or unsure where to even begin. That’s normal. This space is meant to be supportive, respectful, practical, and steady. We are all adults here. We all carry different experiences, perspectives, mistakes, fears, and stories. Some divorces are peaceful. Others are complicated, painful, financially stressful, or emotionally exhausting. Please treat people with kindness and respect, even when experiences differ from your own. This community is for both men and women. There is value in hearing different perspectives, learning from different experiences, and understanding that no two situations are exactly alike. A few quick reminders: • This is not a place to publicly attack or shame your spouse or ex • Please protect your privacy and avoid sharing identifying details • Do not post names, case numbers, addresses, schools, workplaces, or anything that could unnecessarily expose you or someone else • Remember that some people do monitor social media during divorce proceedings, so protecting yourself matters This group is for general support, shared experiences, education, and practical conversation. It is not legal advice.
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When You Get Here, Introduce Yourself 👋
I can hardly wait to meet you. When you join, feel free to introduce yourself and share where you are right now: considering divorce, in the middle of it, recently divorced, rebuilding after loss, or adjusting to solo life. Then tell us one thing that feels heavy this week. You’re also welcome to share: • what stage of life you’re in • what brought you here • what you’re struggling with • or simply what you hope to learn or find support for And if you have questions, ask them. There’s a good chance someone else here has wondered the very same thing. You do not have to have everything figured out before being part of this group. Sometimes just saying: “Hi, I’m here and life feels a little overwhelming right now” is more than enough. I’m really glad you’re here. — Becky 💖
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New Scam Alert
Most of us have seen those little “Verify you are human” boxes online - the ones called CAPTCHA. I added a photo below so you will recognize what I am talking about. If you've spent any time online at all, you have seen this before - probably multiple times. You click the box, identify a few traffic lights or bridges, and move along. But scammers are now creating convincing fake CAPTCHA screens designed to trick you into installing malware on your own computer. The scam is often called ClickFix. Here is how the scam works: A website displays what appears to be a normal CAPTCHA or security check. It then claims the verification failed and tells you to click a button labeled something like: Fix It or How to Fix or Alternate Verification Clicking either button may secretly copy malicious computer code to your clipboard. The next instructions are where the real danger comes in. On a Windows computer, you may be told to press: Windows key + R or Ctrl + V or Enter On a Mac, you may be instructed to open Terminal, paste something into it, and press Return. DO NOT CLICK EITHER BUTTON!!! Those steps are not verifying that you are human. They are telling your computer to run the hidden code the scammer placed on your clipboard. That code may install malware capable of stealing passwords, banking information, email access, and other sensitive information. Microsoft has confirmed that ClickFix attacks have targeted both Windows and Mac devices. REMEMBER THIS ONE RULE: A legitimate CAPTCHA will never ask you to open Run, PowerShell, Windows Terminal, Spotlight, or Terminal—and it will never ask you to paste and run a command. Close the page immediately if you see instructions like these. Do not continue because the site looks familiar. These scams can appear on compromised legitimate websites and may imitate well-known companies or security services. What if you already clicked the button? Clicking the “Fix” button may have copied code to your clipboard, but the malware usually is not launched until you paste and run it.
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💰 Need an Extra $100–$500 a Month? Think Smaller... and Smarter.
When money is tight, our brains tend to jump straight to getting a second job. But there are dozens of ways to bring in a little extra income that don't require working another 20 hours a week. Here are a few ideas you may not have considered: 🌻 1. Become a homeschool helper. Many homeschooling families need someone to teach one subject each week—art, music, science experiments, creative writing, or even basic cooking. You don't have to be a certified teacher. Sometimes they simply need another caring adult with life experience. 🍞 2. Bake one specialty item. Instead of opening a bakery, become known for one thing. Maybe it's cinnamon rolls, sourdough bread, homemade salsa, pies, or decorated cookies. Farmers markets, church events, and local Facebook groups are always looking for quality homemade foods (be sure to check your state's cottage food laws). I once had a home baking business. I baked birthday cakes - not the kind that is the shape and size of a person's pet or anything like that - but just the plain ole sheet cakes. I gave them away in the beginning as prizes for fund raisers, etc., but soon I had more business than I could keep up with. And made really good money doing it. 🐝 3. Keep bees—or partner with someone who does. Honey is just the beginning. Beeswax candles, lip balm, lotion bars, and gift baskets often bring in more profit than the honey itself. I personally would buy bee products over non-bee products any day. 🎻 4. Teach what you've spent years learning. Can you play piano? Quilt? Crochet? Paint? Garden? Sew? Balance a checkbook? Use Excel? Tie fishing flies? Someone wants to learn. One or two evening classes each month can add up. I've secretly always wanted to do "Rent a Craft" night where I go to people's homes, and we create one (1) craft project from start to finish. Each participant pays a fee, and I supply all the bits and pieces for the craft. The host would provide the people, the space and the snacks. 🌱 5. Grow something people don't.
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