I am moving this community over to the Mental Load Basics Community here: https://www.skool.com/mentalloadbasics/about

This group is no longer being used, we are now using the Mental Load Basics Community if you would still like to have this as a forum to talk about Fair Play implementation. Join Here: https://www.skool.com/mentalloadbasics/about

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For those of you looking at plugging back into what we worked on in Fair Play 101, wanting accountability and conversations to continue or bring back momentum, tomorrow I'll be hosting a session to help men improve their marriages and take a look at how they can be owning more of the mental load I know their wives desperately want Link is in the calendar:) Monday 1pm EST For those of you that have wanted to introduce this work to someone but they wouldn't want a 1 on 1 call, this is a good opportunity to invite to.

For my July Cohort, here is what you will be learning/practicing today: (new cohorts, can't hurt to learn early) Anger - when Alyssa tells me to do something I’m already doing and have been thinking about Shame - when there are still moments of Alyssa holding the mental load of chores that I own and have slipped on with the standard (trash she took to the curb today bc I didn’t do it last night the way o normally do) Guilt - that Alyssa has owned so much of the process of us choosing what details of the house to update as we prepare our house to put on the market Guilt 2- anytime I was not doing significant labor and my in laws were doing more in a given moment than I was when they came over to help clean up Fear - that my ability as a coach and community manager/leader is not delivering enough results and that participants are not being set up well enough to succeed, resulting in a failing business Sad - when Alyssa has lost trust in me and feels hurt or lonely Lonely - the months between when Alyssa initiates physical intimacy Hurt - When Alyssa blamed me for her kicking over my coffee mug this morning (albeit a non-ideal location) Joy - seeing my mom play and teach Everly all day yesterday