Hey this community will be sunsetting on Dec 7th, I would like to invite you to join the Free Mental Load Basics community where there is more activity, free video modules as well as the cash prize monthly challenges, ($400 awarded in the past 60 days). Join here: https://www.skool.com/mentalloadbasics/about FOr December we will be running it back with a challenge to name the mental load of your partner, 3 cash prizes for 1st, 2nd, 3rd, launching tomorrow!)

(Note this is the community you will want to join to be a part of this challenge: https://www.skool.com/mentalloadbasics/about) 1. @Katie Muller 2. @Braelyn Vandop 3. Ben Blayney (our Sept Winner) at 29pts 4. @Rye Druzchetta Some changes coming in November -Multi place winners, there will be a 1st 2nd and 3rd place -no more gendered challenges, instead opportunity to acknowledge partners -referrals will have a slightly lower value, or daily submissions will be more points, I know it can take some courage to talk with your community about these things, so i think those are valuable convos you'll be having and are worth their points. What challenge should we do in November?

I wanted to provide an update on the challenge I announced at the end of August where men could earn a $200 date night by identifying the mental load of their partners. October we are going to reverse it. Both Men and women can participate. Same prize but identifying the mental load that the men are contributing to the family. One thing that has been interesting is how many submissions I’ve had to correct, the difference between domestic labor and cognitive labor. 1. @Ben Blayney (52 pts) 2. @David Perlow (49 pts) 3. @Joshua Nelson (44 pts) 4. T - @Bryan Schollenberger (34 pts) @Eduardo Martínez (34 pts) 5. Ryan Muscott (29 pts) All together there have been 451 points scored, meaning yall have identified that many instances of mental load for your partners, you are the men that understand mental load that my 900k+ women audience (90% of 1.1M) have been looking for!

This is a game changer for us. I didn't expect it to be this effective but it managed twice now to really de-escalate us from very bad fights. Thank you for introducing this tool

For the men: GO to the new free community Mental Load Basics: https://www.skool.com/mentalloadbasics/about Participate to win a free $200 Date night to the location of your choosing:) Rules in the other skool community