I have just set a clear boundary over the phone while talking with a customer from my job, who was clearly disrespectful.
It was quick. Usually I take a deep breath or just freeze. However, since I just saw one of this mastermind's recording "You belong to yourself first"; I took inspiration from it and was quick to set the boundary, without waiting even a second.
I said I will disconnect the call because of what he just have said. I imposed myself without letting him continue to talk since it was unacceptable.
I feel that I am unlearning to please people and relearning to own this life and deserving only good things.
While we were taught to be nice and were rewarded for it, now we are shown it is unacceptable to give our power away.
Thus, I am feeling I am rewriring my brain to learn the opposite of what I always knew about: please people.
Now, this mastermind is a safe space to be rewarded to just stand for ourselves even if sometimes society might think it is ridiculous to do so.